“It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it.”
Warren Buffett
This line cuts through the anxiety that often surrounds the question of trust by pointing out that there is no way to answer the question from a safe distance. Caution and observation can only tell you so much. At some point you have to extend trust before you have proof, and that act of extending it is what creates the conditions under which trust can either be confirmed or broken. Waiting for certainty first means the experiment never begins.
Ernest Hemingway was known for a direct, stripped-down style of writing and thinking, and this quote reflects that tendency. Whether it comes from an interview, a letter, or another source, the sentiment fits with a broader worldview that values action over hesitation and experience over theory. The idea also resonates with themes found across his fiction, where characters are often tested by whether they can commit to something without a guarantee of the outcome.
Ernest Hemingway was an American novelist and short story writer who became one of the most influential literary figures of the twentieth century. He worked as a journalist before and alongside his fiction writing, and his experiences covering wars and living abroad shaped much of his work. He received the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1954. His writing style, which favored brevity and concrete detail over ornamentation, had a lasting effect on American prose and continues to influence writers today.
“It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it.”
Warren Buffett
“The best of people are those most beneficial to people.”
Prophet Muhammad · hadith tradition
“Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveler.”
Prophet Muhammad · hadith, Sahih al-Bukhari tradition
“Hussain is from me, and I am from Hussain.”
Prophet Muhammad · hadith, Sunan al-Tirmidhi tradition
“The strongest among you is the one who controls his anger.”
Prophet Muhammad · hadith tradition
“I have not seen a more eloquent sermon than silence.”
Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib · attributed
“He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare, and he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere.”
Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib · attributed
“Patience is to faith what the head is to the body.”
Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib · attributed, Nahj al-Balagha tradition
“People are slaves to the world, and religion is just a lip-service from them.”
Imam Hussain ibn Ali · attributed
“If you do not have a religion and you do not fear the Day of Resurrection, then at least be free in this world.”
Imam Hussain ibn Ali · attributed, addressed at Karbala
“Death with dignity is better than a life of humiliation.”
Imam Hussain ibn Ali · attributed, Karbala
“My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, You're tearing up the grass. We're not raising grass, Dad would reply. We're raising boys.”
Harmon Killebrew