18 Father's Day Quotes That Make You See Dad Differently
Real lines about fathers, from writers and presidents to a few sharp-tongued daughters.
These father's day quotes cut through the greeting-card gloss and say something true about what dads actually do. I pulled 18 lines about fatherhood and dad wisdom that range from tender to funny to quietly devastating. Read one to your father, or just sit with it for a minute.
He didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.
When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.
Twain's joke is on the kid, not the dad. The father didn't change at all; the son finally caught up.
I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.
Freud spent a career on mothers, then said the quiet part about fathers plainly.
It is a wise father that knows his own child.
William Shakespeare The Merchant of Venice
Launcelot says it to his half-blind father, who fails to recognize him. The irony is the point.
A father is a man who expects his son to be as good a man as he meant to be.
Note the word 'meant.' He's handing down the goal he never quite reached.
My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person: he believed in me.
Valvano was a basketball coach who knew belief beats almost any other inheritance.
The Road by Cormac McCarthy
The greatest gift I ever had came from God; I call him Dad.
A folk line that gets passed around because it does the job. Sometimes the anonymous ones are the most quoted.
Any man can be a father. It takes someone special to be a dad.
Geddes built a career photographing babies, so she knows the difference between the title and the work.
By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he's wrong.
The whole cycle in one line. You only forgive your dad once your own kid starts in on you.
To her, the name of father was another name for love.
Fern wrote in the 1850s and still beats most modern cards. Plain and warm.
My father didn't tell me how to live. He lived, and let me watch him do it. I think that is the best lesson a father can give.
Rogers landed near the same truth as Kelland. Different cowboy, same idea: show, don't tell.
When I was young, my father told me that my mother would teach me how to love, and he would teach me how to live.
Common attribution, traditional
A widely shared saying about the split labor of parents. Treat it as folk wisdom, not a verified author.
Dad Is Fat by Jim Gaffigan
I believe that what we become depends on what our fathers teach us at odd moments, when they aren't trying to teach us.
Umberto Eco Foucault's Pendulum
Eco caught the real curriculum: the off-the-cuff stuff sticks harder than the speeches.
Fatherhood is pretending the present you love most is soap-on-a-rope.
From his bestselling book on dads. The line survives even as his reputation didn't.
A girl's father is the first man in her life, and probably the most influential.
Jeremiah, a pastor, says what a lot of daughters feel and few dads realize until much later.
There's something like a line of gold thread running through a man's words when he talks to his daughter, and gradually over the years it gets to be long enough for you to pick up in your hands and weave into a cloth that feels like love itself.
John Gregory Brown Decorations in a Ruined Cemetery
A long, slow sentence that earns every word. Love accumulates one conversation at a time.
The quality of a father can be seen in the goals, dreams and aspirations he sets not only for himself, but for his family.
Markham frames fatherhood as ambition pointed outward, away from yourself.
My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, You're tearing up the grass. We're not raising grass, Dad would reply. We're raising boys.
The Hall of Fame slugger remembered the priorities right. Grass grows back; childhood doesn't.
Pick the one that sounds like your dad and tell him. The good ones never think they did enough, which is usually proof they did.
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