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If thou wilt make a man happy, add not unto his riches but take away from his desires.
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About this quote

Meaning

This saying offers a counterintuitive prescription for happiness. The instinct is to think that giving someone more resources will make them happier, but Epicurus points in the opposite direction. Riches piled on top of unlimited desires only create more hunger, not more satisfaction. The real work of improving a life is trimming back the wants themselves, because a smaller appetite is satisfied far more easily than a larger one, regardless of what is available.

Context

This saying reflects the core of Epicurean ethics, which consistently located the source of unhappiness not in what people lacked but in the restless, often irrational nature of their desires. Epicurus taught his followers to examine their own cravings carefully and to distinguish between those that are natural and necessary, those that are natural but not necessary, and those that are neither. The saying has circulated widely and appears in various translations, which accounts for its slightly archaic phrasing. It captures Epicurean thought with particular clarity and has remained one of the most quoted expressions of his philosophy.

About the author

Epicurus was an ancient Greek philosopher who founded his school in Athens in the late fourth century BCE. He built a community known as the Garden, where students lived modestly and pursued philosophical conversation together. His central teaching was that a calm, pleasurable life was available to anyone who learned to manage desire wisely and cultivate genuine friendships. Though most of his written work has not survived intact, his ideas have influenced philosophical and ethical thought across many centuries and cultures.

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