“To find yourself, think for yourself.”
Socrates · attributed
This short statement places wonder at the very foundation of wisdom. The idea is that genuine understanding cannot begin with certainty or smugness; it starts with a feeling of curiosity, even awe, about the world and our place in it. Wonder keeps the mind open and hungry, and without that openness no real learning can take root.
Socrates left no writings of his own, so nearly everything attributed to him comes through the accounts of others, particularly his student Plato and the historian Xenophon. This line is commonly traced to Platonic dialogues in which Socrates draws a connection between the philosophical impulse and the human capacity for surprise and questioning. The Greek word often translated as wonder, thaumazein, carried a strong sense of genuine astonishment rather than mere idle curiosity, giving the idea real philosophical weight.
Socrates was an Athenian philosopher of the fifth century BCE who became one of the most influential figures in the history of Western thought. He practiced philosophy through conversation, drawing ideas out of his companions by asking probing questions rather than delivering lectures. This method, known as the Socratic method, remains central to education and critical thinking today. He was eventually tried by the Athenian authorities on charges of impiety and corrupting the youth, and he was put to death in 399 BCE. His ideas survive almost entirely through the writings of Plato and Xenophon.
“To find yourself, think for yourself.”
Socrates · attributed
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Socrates · reported by Diogenes Laertius
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Socrates · attributed via Plato, Apology
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Socrates · Plato, Apology
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